I think there have been enough people who have written about our kind of grief (losing a child) in enough detail that I don't feel the call to add to their voices. I don't feel the need to share this part of our path as strongly as I did our struggles through infertility and adoption.
I don't think describing the painful parts of our grief will serve my purposes of catharsis or helping others. Instead, going forward I want to focus on sharing how we're surviving and how we're going to make it through this. Every day I'm going to focus on our path of healing. I'm going to share what we're doing and the things that are helping us put ourselves back together. These will be our days of healing. Rather than sharing the painful steps of our path, I'm going to share the small joys we find along the way, and how we keep moving forward.
"Surely he hath borne our griefs, and carried our sorrows..."